Dan
14 November 1989
adore chocolate,mocha and cameras.
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Ngee Ann Poly HS
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Jan 27, 2015, Tuesday, January 27, 2015
I dont know what to name this post leh~
Hello!I am back to write in this blog in Year 2015! Honestly, I've never thought of starting to write once again but somehow there is inner voice that i should start penning down my thoughts to see the transition of my mindset which changes over years.
Oh, first of all.. Yes, i'm engaged! We do come a long way together. Shiwei has never thought of giving up on me or to this relationship. He pushes me really hard to be a better thinking person, a better wife to be, a better elder sis to my sisters..
And We are getting married on 11th November 2015!! Yayyy! As usual being kiasu me, i like to plan early. It keep me excited to get things done, shop for cheap sale, get our wedding band together or just seeing shiwei's bargain his way with the salesperson to get the reasonable price for our actual day shoot.
Things i have learnt over the past few years.
1. Not to give fuck about things that are not significant to my life . E.g a friendship is no longer worth keeping despite knowing for a decade.
2. Be discipline -Still need to work on that like running for instance!
3.Not to let emotions to control my rational thoughts
4. Firm at work and not really care about how the colleagues think of me.
5. Keep learning!
6. Stay strong no matter what happens and not to be in self-pity state.
7. Have faith in God!
8. Improve on my memory with the techniques taught from books i have read.
9.Confrontation! it was a scary experience to confront, but it helped in my day to day issues which i have to deal with . Rather than gossips or trap in the mind fucking game, i rather choose to confront.
10. Be sincere to everyone.
11. Lastly, be brave.
I am still learning a lot from everyone actually.
Oh, how could i forgot the experience i had in NZ trip?!
It got to be the most unforgettable trip that I had so far. I got to know more about the different culture and this have to thank Gabriel for it. Somehow i believed he had triggered the part of me to change for better.
I still miss you, NZ.. will be back in Christchurch to BREATHE IN MORE FRESH AIR and take long walks to keep me more inspired.
Within that few months when i am back from New Zealand .
The study session with my uni friends were more fruitful than ever.
Billy, Yuting, Joanne Amber and Meichan who shared their experiences about them not being a loser. This kept me more motivated and positive.
And clearly i have more control about my life now .
And Dad, he still played a significant role in my life.
He told me to calm in all situation is to be selfless. Till now, i am trying hard to digest what he mean.
I have to thank God for these lovely angels who transformed themselves in form of friends and family to convey messages and make me to a stronger person!
I actually had a list of resolution for 2015 but lets leave it for the time being.. Its time for bed.
Good night tooodlelidoo!